Another Boyfriend Standard: He Must Reciprocate Interest!

Jun 19, 2013 by

          Interest in me is officially one of my boyfriend standards. I didn’t previously define this as one because I thought it was a given. Then, I remembered the actions of a younger, more naive, pretty stupid version of me, who went after guys that clearly weren’t into her. For that girl, I needed to write this one down. I want a guy who wants to know me, talk to me, and see me (without clinging to me). I have to credit myself; present day’s more confident, less desperate version of me doesn’t chase people. If a guy shows disinterest, I force myself to become uninterested in him. It’s basic self-respect. I encourage all of you, guys and girls, to maintain your dignity by losing interest in people who aren’t equally interested in you.

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